@karenaustoncd:
I came across your thread and have seen that some gurls have responded with very good advice. After reading your thread, i felt that i had to respond. Here's what i have to say....
You will hear from ALOT of gurls that see el (coded) is a bad and risky place to meet people for sexual encounters. Not disputing that such valuable information is bad advice, as it is important to know in advance of what your getting yourself into. There ARE some fucked up people out there! I am VERY surprised to see what Gina Gregory posted up, NOW THAT"S FUCKED UP! I feel bad about the situation that occurred with her. If your reading this message i have posted Gina, could you share your story about this encounter with me via PM?
Once in a blue moon i will check out see el (coded) in search of a partner for a sexual encounter. In the span of 15-20 years i have actually had 5 sexual encounters with guys that i have met from see el (coded). NEVER have i EVER had a single encounter that had a negative outcome. Not even the slightest. I am one that puts my brain (intelligence) before my sexual organ (sexual urge\lust). When it comes to shit like this, meeting complete strangers for sexual encounters, SECURITY and PRIVACY are at the VERY top of my list!
I am very careful, patient, and i know what to look for. I employ the use of specific process's and specific requirements that my partner must go through before an actual meet is to take place. Such process's i execute is very beneficial on my end on various levels. I am one gurl that is extremely difficult to fuck over in situations like this. There is a downside to putting intelligence before my sexual urges, most people don't like having to jump through hoops just for a sexual encounter. This is where patience comes in. It usually takes me a great deal of time finding the right person whom is safe, private, and legit. I would say that see el (coded) is loaded with 60% bullshitters, 35% risky business, and 5% real legit individuals. It is extremely RARE to find that right person!
Though i agree with Kelly when she says to avoid, i would say avoid it like the plague. But you do what you want to do. There is a chance to meet the right person and there is always a chance to meet the WRONG person. Good luck and be safe.
If ANY well established and contributing member in the JCF community has any questions in regards to meeting individuals from see el (coded) in the areas of privacy and security, shoot me a PM. Such information i provide is to better protect\enhance your privacy and security. Be SMART, be SAFE, and be CAREFUL!
Note:
Anyone seeking detailed information about sexual activities with past partners of my see el (coded) nsa sexual encounter meets is confidential. I am the kind of gurl whom does NOT "kiss and tell".
Princess Tiffany